A woman living in Germany attended her colleague’s daughter’s wedding, following the “dress to impress” code by wearing her traditional attire. However, her choice led to unexpected tension and accusations. The 27-year-old woman was thrilled when her 60-year-old colleague invited her to the wedding. When asked about the dress code, she was told to “dress to impress.” On the wedding day, she wore a stunning green traditional outfit. Despite receiving compliments, she noticed the bride and her colleague seemed upset. “My colleague seemed colder than usual, and the bride was downright rude,” she recounted.

The following Monday, office whispers hinted at discontent. A friend revealed that the bride’s mother was furious, believing her outfit was too extravagant and drew attention away from the bride. The woman was shocked, having followed the given instructions. Attempts to discuss the issue with the bride’s mother were rebuffed. The woman defended her choice, explaining that in her culture, vibrant attire is standard at weddings. “This was my first experience with a wedding in a predominantly white cultural context,” she said.

The woman admitted she could have done more research but emphasized her intent was never to overshadow the bride. Her experience highlights the importance of clear communication and understanding cultural differences.