My husband, John, and I planned a luxurious family vacation to Bora Bora to celebrate our granddaughter Robin’s recent marriage. We got a great deal on three bungalows for the grandkids and their families, and a 4,000 sq ft villa with a sauna and pool for ourselves.

Soon after arriving, my other granddaughter, Jenny, mentioned wanting to use our villa’s slide. Robin saw pictures of the villa and demanded, “You expect us to live like peasants while you have a 4000 sq ft villa with a sauna and pool? I want it!” Despite our efforts to explain the importance of spending time together, she stormed off, threatening to leave.

That night, I barely slept. I decided not to give in to Robin’s demands. The next morning, I offered to help Robin and her husband find a flight home, making it clear we wanted a peaceful vacation. Robin was shocked but eventually left.

Afterward, the family grew closer. The rest of our vacation was filled with joy and bonding, reminding us that sometimes standing your ground is necessary. “We’re here to enjoy ourselves, not fight over who gets the fancier room,” I told them. Ultimately, we all learned a valuable lesson about boundaries, respect, and love.