I saw something on my husband’s phone that hurt me deeply. My husband Tom and I, Anna, had been saving every penny for his dream sports car. This meant sacrificing personal desires, including updating my wardrobe.
Two days ago, I picked up Tom’s phone and saw a photo of my underwear drawer in a group chat with his friends. Tom’s comment, “Doesn’t remember marrying a granny,” along with mocking comments from his friends, made me feel humiliated and betrayed.
I confided in my mother-in-law Joyce, who devised a plan. That evening, dressed elegantly, I told Tom I used his car fund for my makeover. Joyce supported me, asserting, “I suggested she treat herself. You need to appreciate and respect your wife.”
Tom, flustered, apologized sincerely. He sent a remorseful message to his friends, deleted the offensive posts, and we decided to seek couples counseling. Though our relationship isn’t perfect, it’s a work in progress.
Joyce’s support helped me reclaim my dignity and reminded Tom of the importance of respect.
