I thought my husband and I were happily married for over ten years until I discovered his deceit. Our friends knew about his infidelity, but I found out through social media.

“Hi all, my name is Catherine, and boy, do I have a story to tell! My husband, Andrew, and I have been together for 15 years. He’s honestly made my life amazing, and together we have two wonderful kids.” Our journey began in fourth grade, and we have been inseparable ever since. However, Andrew’s bond with his best friend, Victor, seemed deeper than any other friendship.

At a girls’ night, I saw a recent selfie of Andrew and Victor in a hot tub on social media. Shocked, I browsed their joint account and found photos of them cuddling and kissing. My friends confessed they knew but didn’t know how to tell me. “I’m sorry, Cat. We didn’t know how to tell you, and some of us honestly thought you knew,” Lily cried.

I confronted Andrew. “Andrew, what’s this?” I asked, showing him a photo. He stammered, “It’s not what it looks like.” I decided, “I’m filing for divorce, Andrew. I deserve someone who chooses me every single day.”

Months later, I learned Victor left Andrew. Their actions had consequences, but I found strength and self-respect. Andrew and I now share custody of our children, but I look forward to a future unburdened by the past.