For years, my husband John refused to have a child with me, despite my desperation. One night, after a heated argument, I overheard a phone call that revealed the fears driving his decision.
Watching neighborhood kids play, I whispered, “Why doesn’t he want a baby with me?” John’s consistent refusal and his suggestion to adopt baffled me.
In the early years, we were inseparable, but my desire for a family grew, while John’s reluctance became more apparent. Arguments about having a child became frequent.
One night, after an argument, I overheard John on the phone saying, “What am I supposed to tell her, Mom? That I don’t want our kid to turn out as messed up as I am?” My heart pounded as I realized he was hiding something.
The next morning, I found a report highlighting “Huntington’s.” My heart sank as I understood his hidden burden. That evening, I confronted him. “Why didn’t you tell me?” I asked. He replied, “I couldn’t bear the thought of passing it on to our child.”
We decided to adopt, finding joy in planning our future without the shadows of genetic fear. Our love grew stronger, ready to face anything together.
