support. Despite her initial struggles, we’ve managed a routine where I care for my grandson in the evenings. Now, with a long-awaited vacation approaching, I face a tough decision.

“I really want to rest,” I confess. Yet, my daughter sees an opportunity to save on daycare expenses by having me look after my grandson during my break.

At 56, my energy isn’t what it used to be, and the thought of keeping up with a curious 14-month-old for a month is daunting. “I know I won’t get that rest,” I admit.

My love for my grandson is unquestionable, but this vacation was meant for me to recharge. Despite feeling guilty about my daughter’s predicament, I must prioritize my well-being.

“I love my grandson, but it is also my rest,” I remind myself.

Balancing caregiving duties with personal needs is a challenge many face. In this scenario, compassion for my daughter battles with the necessity of self-care. While it’s essential to support loved ones, it’s equally crucial to set boundaries and prioritize one’s own health and happiness.