My daughter’s unexpected pregnancy announcement at my birthday party was shocking enough, but when she revealed the father, my world was turned upside down. Now, I’m struggling between anger and the possibility that her lover might genuinely care for her.

Hey, folks. I’m a 49-year-old manager at a car repair shop. My name’s Dave. I’ve got a wonderful wife, Sarah, and a 19-year-old daughter, Kira. She’s the light of my life. She recently got into her dream university, and I couldn’t be prouder.

It was my birthday, and we had a big celebration with friends. Out of nowhere, Kira walked into the backyard looking upset. “Dad, I’m pregnant,” she blurted out, pointing to Mike, one of my best mechanics. I was furious. “How could you do this? She’s just a kid!” I yelled at Mike. Kira pleaded, “We love each other. We’ve been together for months.”

A few days later, Kira returned home. “Dad, Mike sold his car and his grandmother’s house to pay for my tuition,” she revealed, tears in her eyes. Mike’s sacrifice made me reconsider my anger. “Dad, Mike isn’t a bad person,” Kira continued. “He’s always treated me with respect.”

Sarah encouraged me, “Maybe it’s time to let go of the anger.” I knew I needed to figure out what was best for Kira and our future grandchild. How would you handle this situation? Should I forgive Mike and support my daughter, or should I stand my ground? Your thoughts and advice would mean a lot right now.