Psychologists advise parents to choose their words carefully when talking to their children, as words can deeply impact them. Here are seven phrases to avoid:
- “Stop crying”: Instead, allow your child to express emotions and help them understand the situation.
- “You disappointed me!”: Avoid making your child feel like a disappointment. Provide feedback gently and positively.
- “You are not good enough”: Don’t make your child believe they lack something. Encourage improvement and build their confidence.
- “Big boys/girls don’t get scared”: Acknowledge their fear and reassure them that it’s okay to be scared sometimes.
- “You are a bad boy/girl”: Address their actions, not their character. Everyone makes mistakes.
- “I do everything for you”: While you provide for them, encourage a sense of responsibility without expecting too much too soon.
- “You’re fat/dark/ugly, etc.”: Avoid body shaming. Encourage healthy habits instead of creating a negative environment.
Parents play a vital role in nurturing their children’s self-esteem and motivation. Be cautious with your words to ensure their emotional well-being and future success.
